BANGKOK Gay Bars & Clubs 2021

Bangkok’s bar scene is lively and constantly changing. One off parties and club nights come and go and get more inventive each year as event organisers battle for locals and tourists! Those looking for late night fun and an almost exclusively gay-male environment should head to Soi 2, a small alley a short walk away filled with gay discos playing everything from electronic to pop.

Strange Bar Bangkok

Stranger bar – Don’t miss the infamous “sperm shot”!

Gay District Bangkok

Most of the popular gay bars are located next to each other with great terraces!

Our guide to gay bars in Bangkok.

Most of Bangkok’s gay scene is concentrated in the Silom area, around the Sala Daeng and Silom MRT stations. Soi 4 is a great place to begin your night. Be aware that entrances to the sois/alleyways can be easy to miss so keep your eyes peeled! Here you will find the famous Telephone and Balcony bars and the popular Stranger Bar. This is a popular area for pre-dinner drinks. The area gets busy by 10pm. Don’t miss the infamous “sperm shot” at Stranger.

Those looking for late night fun and an almost exclusively gay-male environment should head to Soi 2, a small alley a short walk away filled with gay discos playing everything from electronic to pop.

The red light district is to the north, running parallel to Silom Road you will find Suriwong Road which has Soi Twilight. Here you find bars full of rent boys and sex shows. This area is not for the faint of heart. Delve into the Bangkok Boys, Classic or Dream Boys to watch some of their inventive raunchy shows.

In Soi 2, DJ Station is one of the most popular gay clubs in the city and is busy every night of the week. Weekends are packed solid. If you still want to party after, head to GOD (Guys on Display) spread out over 3 floors!

Those looking to relax after a night out in Bangkok should head to Babylon. Busy from 7pm to 10pm, the sauna attracts gay guys from all over the world. Complete with Gym, Swimming Pool, a spa and a massage, this is not your usual sauna, and is well worth a visit! Hotel, bathhouse, massage parlour, bar, restaurant, and pool, a time at Babylon can be anything you want it to be. Other popular saunas include R3 Sauna and Chakran Sauna.

For shows, check out Calypso, a Bangkok institution for over 25+ years. Experience the most unique and eccentric drag cabaret shows with a large troupe of acts.

Sing Sing Theatre offers something completely different; a fantastical bar-cum-club with the most creative interior design concept in Bangkok. Paying homage to far Eastern aesthetics, you can expect intricate wrought iron patterns, hundreds of lanterns hanging from the ceiling and plenty of dragon imagery.

Thrasher throws one-off events that are redefining gay Bangkok nightlife with changing themes at different locations around town as locals and visitors, dress up, drink up, and dance to trashy pop songs.

Classic Boys Club down Soi Twilight can only be described as a Gay Bangkok version of Cirque De Soleil, mermen perform choreographed acts in a ‘tank show’ while you knock back a few Singhas. There’s also slightly less aquatic go-go dance performances, and many, many boys offering pay-for-play sex.

Every Sunday night at the Novotel Fenix Silom, the 1920’s themed speakeasy Maggie Choo’s swaps out their qipao-clad waitresses for shirtless hunks (some on swings) for a gay-themed night “The Importance of Being Ernest”. Aside from the reference to one of  literature’s (and gaydom’s) biggest icons, the hi-so, jazz-heavy night is hosted by G-Spot and Thailand’s most famous drag queen – Pangina Heels.

An institution in the Gay Bangkok scene, Sunday brunch at the Sukhothai should have both your Grindr and tastebuds in meltdown mode. Hungover, hungry, and horny guys gays  flock to one of the most decadent all-you-can-eat weekend brunches in the city. A crisp shirt and Bloody Mary here will have you right as rain if you did some regrettable things the night before.

Here are the hotels we recommend that have good reviews and keep you close to all the action

COMO Metropolitan,    W Bangkok,    Banyan Tree,    Bandara Suites.

  • When to go out?

    As one of the most visited cities on the world, Bangkok is busy year round. People generally tend to eat between 6pm and 8pm (if you are local). Most restaurants will be busiest between 8pm and 10pm. Bars in Silom tend to get busy from 10pm onwards, earlier during the weekends! Clubs get busy from 1.30am, but you can party late into the night and into the next morning at the gay nightlcubs in Soi 2.

  • Where to Stay

    In general, the closer you are to a Skytrain station, the happier you’ll be. Bangkok is a big city, with notoriously bad traffic, and being able to fly over it is a big advantage for getting around the city. Staying on the river also has the advantage of being able to avoid traffic to many destinations by traveling on water. Check out these hotels close to the gay district!

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Gay Bars in BANGKOK

Check out the most popular gay bars and clubs in Bangkok.

4 sport's bar gay bar Bangkok

4 sport’s bar

If you want to catch that football game why not watch it at 4 sports bar with a beer in hand, this fun gay bar is popular during big games!
Bas Living Room gay bar Bangkok

Bas Living Room

Bas Living Room has a great relaxed atmosphere with friendly service and the best cocktails on Silom Soi 4. one of the nicer bars for a quiet drink.
Boys66 club gay bar Bangkok

Boys66 club

Boys66 club is a bar and nightclub with modern upmarket décor, offering different nightly shows, everything from drag queen show to hot boys in shower shows
Brother's Gay Bar Bangkok

Brother’s Bar

Brother’s Bar and Restaurant is a well designed modern venue popular with bears and their friends, offering a friendly ambience with professional live music
Connections gay bar Bangkok

Connections Bar

Connections gay bar is located in the heart of the gay area offering a large outside terrace and a small but fun bar inside.
Dick's Cafe Bangkok gay bar

Dick’s Cafe Bangkok

Dick's Cafe Bangkok a quiet oasis in the heart of Bangkok's nightlife where you can enjoy a quiet drink or great meal in the heart of Bangkok.
FORK & CORK gay bar and restaurant in Bangkok


Fork and Cork is a gay owned and run bar restaurant located in the main gay area of Bangkok
HUGs Karaoke bears bar Bangkok

HUGs Bar

HUGs gay bar and Karaoke is one of the bear’s favorite hot spots always busy but at weekends its packed solid
Jupiter2018 gay bar Bangkok


Jupiter 2018 is a gay male GoGo bar in Bangkok. It offers a great none nude GoGo boys erotic dancing shows.
Sugar Bowl gay bar bangkok

Sugar Bowl

Sugar Bowl is a small but fun gay bar in the gay area of Bangkok offering a nice terrace for people watching,
Tawan Bar gay show bar Bangkok

Tawan Bar

Tawan gay bar is one of the better Bangkok show bars, modern decor, specialising in muscle GoGOs boys
Telephone Pub Bangkok

Telephone Pub

Telephone pub, restaurant & karaoke opened id doors in 1987, making it one of the oldest gay bars in Bangkok
The Balcony Bangkok

The Balcony

The Balcony gay bar in the heart of the gay area offers 2 big terraces on which to enjoy a drink, and people watch as boys hop from bar to bar
The Stranger Bar Bangkok

The Stranger Bar

The Stranger Bar & Lounge Is a gay drag show bar, this is a fun and Stylish place located in the main gay area in Bangkok,
White Rabbit gay bar Bangkok

White Rabbit

The White Rabbit is a gay Café Bar spread over 3 floors with a coffee shop, a restaurant, and a lounge bar,


The busiest gay bars in Bangkok are located along Soi 2 and Soi 4.


Recommended Hotels in Bangkok

Silom Street 2 and 4 is the epicenter of gay nightlife in Bangkok. Here you will find the best bars and restaurants, the perfect place to begin your night on the town.

COMO Metropolitan
5 Star, Superb

COMO Metropolitan

This 5-star hotel in Bangkok’s Sathorn area includes modern Thai-style rooms with free WiFi, a 20 m outdoor pool and a COMO Shambhala Urban Escape spa.

W Bangkok, 5 Star
Design & Sophistication

W Bangkok

W Bangkok Hotel offers a luxury accommodation with modern amenities and free Wi-Fi in the public areas. It boasts an outdoor pool & fitness centre

Banyan Tree
5 Star Luxury

Banyan Tree Bangkok offers luxurious rooms with views of the city or Chaophraya River. It features a roof-top restaurant and bar, a spa with pool

Bandara Suites, 4 Star
Close to the gay scene

Bandara Suites

Located in Silom District, Bandara Suites offers rooms and suites with free Wi-Fi. It features 2 dining options, 2 swimming pools and a pool bar.

Recommended Apartments in Bangkok

At 21 Saladaeng
Sleeps 5 up to Guests

All apartments come with air conditioning. The Elite apartments features two bedrooms & with living room, dining area & kitchenette. the property offers a 24-hour reception, an outdoor pool, sauna, fitness centre & Laundry room

Baan K Residence
Sleeps 4 up to Guests

A home away from home, minimalist studios and suites feature private balconies and fully furnished kitchens. Comfortable lounge areas come with a sofa set and home theater system 40-inch flat-screen TVs, fitness centre. Free Wi-Fi

Sabai Sathorn
Sleeps up to 7 Guests

Sabai Sathorn offers Bright and stylishly furnished well-appointed serviced air-conditioned apartments with living rooms and kitchens and private bathroom. It features a rooftop swimming pool and a yoga room. Free WiFi

Ascott Sathorn
Sleeps up to 5 Guests

Tastefully furnished, the spacious apartments at Ascott feature full kitchen facilities and a comfortable living room. Each is equipped with a washing machine, satellite/cable TV and DVD player. Outdoor pool, spa, fitness centre. Free WiFi

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